“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.”
― Andre Gide, Autumn Leaves

Something I found on another website – view from the porch

“Love is a roller coaster… You can’t take your purse on the ride, you wind up strapped in upside down and someone throws up, and all you’re left with is a souvenir photo of you with your hands up, screaming.“